Another day in patriarchy

So, after a very very long time, I got a mango iced tea from starbucks. I sit on a bench by myself and start enjoying my drink.
A guy passes me with his bike, stops, looks at me and the conversation goes as follows:
-Can I sit here? (it was the bench next to mine)
-Sure you can.
I put my mask back on, as I took it off whilst I sat on the bench, since no one was around.
-I don't have corona you know. I'm immune to it.
-Good for you.
-Can I talk to you?
-No, sorry, I'm busy. (I pretended to look on my phone)
I had already started to feel uncomfortable because he was staring at me the whole time, so I put my phone down and started dissinfecting my hands.
-Did you finish what you were doing? Can we talk now?
-No, sorry. I'm leaving.
-Can we meet again?
-No.
-Why?
-Because I don't want to.
-Why?
-I don't have to give you a reason
-Yes you do!
-No, I don't. Bye.
-Have a good evening. We may meet again!
-You too and no.

And that's how my mood was ruined and I couldn't enjoy my iced tea.

21 of my fav black IG accounts

Considering what is going on in USA (e.g. the constant murder of innocent black people) and that finally white people are opening their eyes to the oppression and racism black people face, I am trying to do what I can to educate myself and others. I believe now, more than ever, it is important to listen to what black people have to say, to amplify their voices, to support black businesses and to stand up against racism. Being silent is not enough. Pretending racism does not concern you and ignoring your white privilege is part of the problem.
So, I would like to share 21 of my favourite black IG accounts, where you can not only educate yourselves on #blacklivesmatter, but also support black businesses and artists.

21 of my fav black IG accounts:

• @joyjah (Joyjah Estrada) - model/fashion
  
• @jasmeannnn (Jasmine Brown) - lashes/fashion/model/makeup
  
• @cydbee (Cydnee Black) - beauty & lifestyle
  
• @tashjanecollins (Tashjané Collins) - makeup
  
• @thejungalow (Jungalow) - plants/interior design
  
• @marie_mag_ (Candance Marie) - model/fashion
  
• @iamcharityleigh (Charity Leigh) - makeup
  
• @elmayahh (Eleni Asimaki) - model/fashion
  
• @marianna_painesi (Mariana Painesi) - model/fashion
  
• @heidincloset (Heidi In Closet) - drag queen
  
• @jaidaehall (Jaida Essence Hall) - drag queen
  
• @vanessa_gyimah (Vanessa) - makeup
  
• @alissajanay (Alissa) - model/fashion
  
• @monicastylemuse (Monicastylemuse) - blogger/style/makeup
  
• @chaulegend (Chaun P.) - nail art
  
• @sheamoistureuk (SheaMoisture UK) - hair brand
  
• @kevin.laroy (babyface killa) - tattoo artist
  
• @kattatgirl (Kat Tat) - tattoo artist
  
• @itskitsovain (Miss Kitty Sovain) - TV personality/makeup
  
• @latriceroyale (Latrice Royale) - drag queen
  
• @meechdoodle (Meech) - illustration/comics

2nd Recipe: Quick Mediterranean Pasta

Things you’ll need:

• Brown pasta (or white, it’s up to you)
• Salt (I use Himalayan pink salt)
• Tomatoes
• Onions
• White cheese (preferably feta, or the vegan substitute)
• Rocket Salad
• Oregano
• Extra Virgin Olive Oil
• A pot and a colander

Ps. You can also add Olives, Avocado, or any other fresh vegetable you like!

TIP ➔ WHEN IT COMES TO QUANTITIES AND PORTIONS, IT’S ALL RELATIVE TO HOW MANY PEOPLE YOU’RE COOKING FOR, OR HOW HUNGRY YOU ARE! I’D SAY TRY TO NOT PUT THAT MANY INGREDIENTS THAT YOU CAN’T TASTE OR SEE THE PASTA ANY MORE!

Cooking time!

1. Chop all of your vegetables and cheese in small cubes.
2. Put water in a large pot, place it on the hob and wait until it starts boiling. Then throw a pinch of salt and your pasta in there!
3. Check every few minutes and when the pasta is ready, strain it and put it on a plate.
4. Then, put your vegetables and cheese on top. I usually do it in the following order: Tomatoes, Rocket Salad, Onions, Cheese.
5. Sprinkle Oregano on top and 2 tablespoons of Extra Virgin Olive Oil per portion.

That’s it! You made it!

Enjoy your meal! ^_^

Random Thoughts LΧΧV

In case you needed to hear it today: You don’t have to become your parents’ dreams and ambitions.